If you’ve been seeing a girl for a while now and are ready to take things to the sexy cuddling level, you’ll need to know how to cuddle with a girl.
Of course, cuddling feels good. But your little man down there can’t help but want some action every time you cuddle with your girlfriend!
We get it, but there are ways to make sure she’s happy with your cuddling, and you are too! Wanna know how to cuddle with a girl so it leads to sex every time? Girls are not the type of creatures that you can just stick your boner out to and expect that they’re going to want to sit on it. As harsh as that sounds, it’s the truth. We need more than that. We need contact, we need affection, and most importantly, we need to get warmed up to you first.
# Make sure she’s comfortable around you first
You can’t just expect that some random girl is going to want to come over and cuddle before having sex. You have to get to know this girl first and make sure your feelings are mutual beforehand.
Ensure that she’s comfortable with being alone with you. I would advise that you take her on a couple of dates before moving things along.
# Get her to come over alone
Girls like to travel in packs in order to avoid being alone with someone they might not be totally comfortable with. That being said, invite her over for a fun game and movie night, and see if she’ll come alone. Make sure she knows it’s a totally casual evening so she doesn’t have too many reservations about it.
If she comes alone, chances are, she’s comfortable with you. And if you’ve already been flirting with her and she’s flirting back, bigger chances are, she’d be okay with a bit of sexy cuddling and foreplay too!
# Sit really close to her
Obviously, if you want to know how to cuddle with a girl, you have to start the evening by sitting right next to her. In order to do this, you have to make sure she sits down first so you can position yourself next to her.
This can be done by making a drink first, putting the movie in, grabbing the games, or anything else that ensures that she has to sit on the couch first. It’s a lot harder to scoot close to her when she’s on the opposite side of the couch.
# Throw on a suspenseful or even scary movie
This can seem like it’s out of context, but it can actually mean the difference between close cuddling and you spending a couple hours with your arm draped over her shoulder.
If you pick a scary and suspenseful movie, she’ll look to you for security when she’s too scared. So it will make it a lot easier for you to grab her and cuddle her close when she’s terrified.
# Turn the thermostat down
This is a trick an old boyfriend used on me once, and he definitely knew how to cuddle with a girl. After all this time, I still can’t get over just how clever it is. When a girl is cold, she’ll be more likely to cuddle with you in order to warm up. So turn the thermostat down and make sure it’s pretty chilly in there!
# Give her a cold beverage to drink
Just like turning the thermostat down will make her colder, so will giving her something cold to drink. If you have both of these going for you, she’ll be freezing and WANT you to cuddle up to her in order to warm up.