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I caught my BF circulating an MMS of his ex-GF

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The Times Of India
13th May, 2022 18:00 IST

You think you know the love of your life very well, but then something so gnarly and unexpected happens, that it leaves you wondering, “Do I really know this person?” I was faced with a situation so sudden, that it didn’t even give me time to react or act according to the situation. And to this very day, I can’t forgive myself for doing the right thing.

Back when I was in college, I was dating a batchmate of mine. He was really popular with everyone mostly because of his looks and great personality. Indeed, I felt extremely lucky to have him as my boyfriend. As semesters passed, I fell deeply in love with him, and I thought, he too had. Our relationship was going great. Soon enough, our annual fest approached and we all had devoted ourselves to making it a success. During that time period, I used to see less of my boyfriend as he was super busy coordinating with others and doing all the work. It was tough as we hardly spoke to each other during that time, except for the occasional I love you’s.

Gladly, our fest was a great success! On the last day, all our friends came together and we were having a blast when, right in the middle of a song, a notification popped up on all of our phones, at the same time. And when we all opened it, we were shell-shocked! It was a private video of one of the girls at our college, and not to mention, this girl was my boyfriend’s ex. I was flabbergasted. At this point, everyone was looking at their phones and I could see that the video was extremely intimate, and it had that girl and a guy in a very compromising position. I immediately deleted the video from my phone and urged everyone to do the same.

Then, I saw a girl running towards the washroom. It was that girl only. Many other girls ran after her, in an attempt to comfort her. This was extremely disrespectful and horrid, to have someone’s private video being leaked out in public like that, not to mention, among young college students!

This incident caused quite the ruckus in college. Our professors became quite strict and many people were called for questioning at the disciplinary’s office. Reportedly, the girl did not file a case about the same. It was heartbreaking to see her in this state. I didn’t know much about her, but only knew that my boyfriend had apparently dumped her before.

But my entire world came crashing down one day. As my boyfriend and I were enjoying some time alone to ourselves one night, he went off to pay the delivery person for the noodles we had ordered. He forgot his phone, and right when he went, a notification popped up on his phone that said, “That b*tch got what she deserved. Good thing we did.” My heart started thumping fast. I rushed to the washroom with the phone and then opened the chat. It revealed a group chat between my boyfriend and his two close friends. They were talking about how easily their plan worked out! Their most recent conversation dated back to that night of the fest when that MMS got leaked. It all revealed how they were the ones who had circulated the MMS. I was horrified and scared. I also tried to look in his phone if he had any videos of us, but thankfully I didn’t find any. I quickly came out of the washroom and kept his phone on the side while looking at my own. My hands were trembling and I was traumatized. I didn’t know how to confront him about the same.

The person I loved was a monster. He had the audacity to do something horrible like this. I didn’t waste much time in breaking up with him over the next week. I tried doing it in the sweetest way possible because I was afraid, that he would do anything horrible to me next. I stayed mum. I didn’t report this because I was afraid of what would happen to me. I regret doing so, to this day. I wish I had reported the matter because it would've put such people behind the bars and saved other women from being victims. But I was a coward to not do so.


*Please reach out to the women’s helpline numbers in such situation - 1091*


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