“I saw my husband practicing black magic, I'm scared”
Her story: I had an arranged marriage a few months back and all was good until one day I walked into the house after work and saw my husband practicing black magic . He had a doll in his hand and all the creepy objects that I have only seen in movies. At first I thought I may have misunderstood because we all think that this cannot be happening but when he was away the next day I searched the house and found rice and sindoor in a plastic bag too in a corner of one of the wardrobes.
I am scared. I don't know how to deal with this.
His story: I am happily married to my wife but I did something and I think that creeped out my wife. I have an interest in the occult sciences and I love to read about them. I have a lot of books and all the material on them including certain things on black magic. One day when my wife was not around, I tried to experience what truly happens if I do what black magic is infamous for. I had no one in my mind and not that I was concentrating but I think my wife saw me. She has not said a word about it but I know I saw some movement outside the door and now she has been avoiding sleeping next to me. I don’t want her to think that I am a firm believer but just that I have a curious mind. How do I handle this situation? Should I just confront her or should I let it go?
His story: I am happily married to my wife but I did something and I think that creeped out my wife. I have an interest in the occult sciences and I love to read about them. I have a lot of books and all the material on them including certain things on black magic. One day when my wife was not around, I tried to experience what truly happens if I do what black magic is infamous for. I had no one in my mind and not that I was concentrating but I think my wife saw me. She has not said a word about it but I know I saw some movement outside the door and now she has been avoiding sleeping next to me. I don’t want her to think that I am a firm believer but just that I have a curious mind. How do I handle this situation? Should I just confront her or should I let it go?
Vishal Bhardwaj, Founder and Relationship Coach , Predictions For Success
Occult has always been a keen area of interest because humans are always excited to see beyond the horizon of life and death. Modern science doesn’t approve of the occult but it surely understands the psychology behind it. From hypnosis to bipolar, there are very close similarities between these pseudoscience and modern science subjects that can’t be ignored.
For Her
The first step of curiosity is reading and though most people restrict themselves to this step; few move on to small practical exercises. Tantra is not just about black magic to be honest, different worship of aggressive gods and goddesses like Kaali, Rudra etc are also an eminent part of it. I strongly recommend you to have a clear communication with your husband and understand his motive and aim. Also, feel free to clearly speak your opinion in a respectful manner.
To Him
Occult is an infinite ocean of curiosity and the deeper you go, the harder it is to come back. Even as per the occult experts, you are not supposed to practice these subjects without proper guidance and never at home. Books are there to give you an overview, but you can’t operate an open-heart surgery by reading books. I recommend you keep the curiosity to the first step of reading and talk about the whole incident to your wife. The more you hide, the more she will overthink.
AiR Atman in Ravi
Spiritual Leader and Founder of AiR Institute of Realization and AiR center of Enlightenment
To Her:
You say that you saw your husband practicing black magic. First of all, remember it is not the end of the world. Black magic is not as dark as we imagine or portray it to be. Sometimes, we shouldn’t make conclusions when we see someone with some objects. He may have been just curious or may be wanting to just experiment and not practicing as may have seemed to you. My advice to you in this situation is to confront, question and clarify all your doubts with your husband. After all, marriage is a journey of togetherness and the two sides of the coin of marriage are love and trust. They go hand-in-hand and if trust is not there, then love also will not exist and the marriage will surely end. Communication, patience and faith in the partner are the foundation to hold the pillars of love and trust. Somewhere, we have to trust our partners if we want our marriage to work and once you are married, you must work towards making this relationship successful and not let such doubts make the marriage suffer.
To Her:
You say that you saw your husband practicing black magic. First of all, remember it is not the end of the world. Black magic is not as dark as we imagine or portray it to be. Sometimes, we shouldn’t make conclusions when we see someone with some objects. He may have been just curious or may be wanting to just experiment and not practicing as may have seemed to you. My advice to you in this situation is to confront, question and clarify all your doubts with your husband. After all, marriage is a journey of togetherness and the two sides of the coin of marriage are love and trust. They go hand-in-hand and if trust is not there, then love also will not exist and the marriage will surely end. Communication, patience and faith in the partner are the foundation to hold the pillars of love and trust. Somewhere, we have to trust our partners if we want our marriage to work and once you are married, you must work towards making this relationship successful and not let such doubts make the marriage suffer.
To Him:
If your wife saw you practicing something like black magic, due to which she is getting distant from you and you are getting distant from the truth that you have to address this issue, then you are making a huge mistake. Your wife has seen you doing some wrong act and she is presuming that you are using this black magic on her. It is a serious matter and needs immediate attention, before it gets out of hand. You must communicate the whole issue to her. Express yourself to your wife and in doing so, you must be honest and transparent. Marriage is all about honesty and transparency. Share your interest in occult sciences with her openly, without any worry of being judged. When anything is hidden between the spouses, trust in the relationship gets affected and that will be the beginning of the end of your marriage. You should not let this happen. So work towards making your marriage successful and not let it suffer.
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