Relationship opinions you need to hear now

Nobody has a singular idea about dating and relationships. Everyone’s opinions uniquely differ. While some people suffer from never-ending trust issues from a relationship , others soothe themselves with the idea of a prince charming. But let’s face it. Relationships are complicated. Even though you don’t want to hear them, some pieces of advice and opinions are a bitter truth of reality.

Hence, we bring to you a few opinions about relationships that you need to hear and consider right now.

Useless rules

It’s not wise to go by the “don’t go to sleep angry” rule because if that issue is still inwardly bothering you, then you know you have to have a good discussion about it, at that very moment.

Friends know best

If your friends are telling you that your partner isn’t good enough, listen to them. They only want what’s best for you. And, trust us, those ‘vibes’ they feel from your partner are real.

Nothing is too fast

If you want to move fast in your relationship, do it. Don’t wait for others’ judgements. If you want to have sex on the first date or move in together after a couple of months, it is alright. Every relationship is different and has its own very pace.

Soulmates?

The concept of soulmates is nothing but fantasy. Realistically speaking, there are billions of people around the world and finding that person who connects to you mentally, spiritually and physically is almost impossible. But, making the most out of who you are with now, is what counts.

Err, too much social media

Couples who love posting on social media about every second of their day together, should consider not doing so, once a while. Nobody wants to see you both on their feed all the time, being all mushy and romantic.

Changing for someone isn’t always a bad idea

People always brand changing for your S.O to be a bad thing, but sometimes, with the company of good people, you can let go of any toxic traits or negative thoughts you have been hoarding for some time.

Different political views are not the end of the relationship

It’s not a compulsion to be with someone you strongly disagree with, in terms of politics. But, if you don’t mind your partner’s views as long as you respect them, you both should be good to go.

Fancy first dates-no thanks

First dates always put pressure on you to look good and behave properly. And if the first date is at a fancy restaurant or bar, it’s a gone show. It gets all the more difficult to get to know the other person when you’re busy figuring out which fork to use.

Don’t go back to your ex

If you’ve broken up once, be done with it. Don’t think about going back to your ex, because it won’t work out. You both might have tried everything already to prevent the first breakup, but nonetheless, it happened. So, it’s of no use. And don’t ever think of being friends with your ex.

Clear communication

This is no surprise but asking your partner if you can share some negative thoughts with them just to vent out, should be encouraged. Your partner should be ready to take a hit, before you blast them with a negative headspace.