Top 10 Indian States That Use the Most Abusive Language
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A unique nationwide campaign titled “Gaali Band Ghar Abhiyan” (No-Abuse Home Campaign), led by Professor Dr. Sunil Jaglan between 2014 and 2025, set out to study how commonly Indians use abusive language in everyday life. Covering nearly 70,000 participants from diverse professions and regions, the campaign sheds light on a concerning pattern: verbal abuse is not just frequent, but often normalised—even at home. Let’s explore the top 10 Indian states where swearing has become a part of daily conversation.
1. Delhi: The Capital of Curses (80%)
With life moving at breakneck speed, Delhiites often find themselves battling traffic jams, urban stress, and relentless competition. As tempers flare, abusive language becomes a common outlet, especially in public spaces. Shockingly, a high percentage of this includes gender-targeted slurs.
2. Punjab: Loud, Proud—and Sometimes Rude (78%)
Known for its colourful culture and expressive people, Punjab sees swearing often used in friendly banter. Among close-knit groups, abuses may carry little real malice but can come across as aggressive or shocking to outsiders.
3. Uttar Pradesh: Everyday Talk with a Sharp Edge (74%)
From roadside squabbles to political speeches, strong language is deeply embedded in UP’s conversational style. It's often less about insult and more about assertion or dramatic flair in arguments.
4. Bihar: Straight Talk, Strong Words (74%)
In Bihar, the use of blunt and emotionally charged language is common, especially during disagreements. In rural setups, it can be used to express dominance or disapproval, sometimes with little sensitivity to its impact.
5. Rajasthan: Heated Words Under the Desert Sun (68%)
Despite its royal heritage, parts of Rajasthan display a rougher verbal tone in daily life. Whether in family disputes or casual gossip, mild abusive terms often surface without much offence being taken.
6. Haryana: Rough Words, Rural Roots (62%)
Famous for its rustic and fearless attitude, Haryana embraces direct speech—even when it turns abusive. Among men, especially in rural areas, such language is seen as a mark of masculinity or assertiveness.
7. Maharashtra: Stress, Slang and Street Talk (58%)
Big-city stress in Mumbai and Pune often finds release through verbal outbursts. Crowded trains, traffic snarls, and market chaos make slang and swear words a common feature of the urban vocabulary.
8. Gujarat: The Surprising Entry (55%)
Usually known for courteous conduct, Gujarat still sees occasional abusive language, particularly among the youth. Pop culture, social media, and regional influences may be changing how younger generations express themselves.
9. Madhya Pradesh: Local Lingo with a Rough Edge (48%)
In MP’s towns and villages, the native dialects sometimes feature words that border on abusive. These are used casually in everyday life, especially during heated exchanges or storytelling.
10. Uttarakhand: Peaceful People, Rising Stress (45%)
Traditionally known for calm and courteous speech, some parts of Uttarakhand are seeing a shift. Increasing urbanisation and the influence of neighbouring states with harsher slang have led to a modest rise in abusive language.
Kashmir: The Kindest Talkers (15%)
Standing apart from the rest, Kashmir reports the lowest rate of abusive language usage. Strong cultural values, family bonds, and a deep-rooted sense of respect keep conversations largely civil and soft-spoken.
This unique survey reveals a deeper cultural concern—how verbal abuse has crept into casual conversation across the country. By highlighting these patterns, campaigns like Gaali Band Ghar Abhiyan aim to promote kinder communication and more respectful homes.
1. Delhi: The Capital of Curses (80%)
With life moving at breakneck speed, Delhiites often find themselves battling traffic jams, urban stress, and relentless competition. As tempers flare, abusive language becomes a common outlet, especially in public spaces. Shockingly, a high percentage of this includes gender-targeted slurs.
2. Punjab: Loud, Proud—and Sometimes Rude (78%)
Known for its colourful culture and expressive people, Punjab sees swearing often used in friendly banter. Among close-knit groups, abuses may carry little real malice but can come across as aggressive or shocking to outsiders.
3. Uttar Pradesh: Everyday Talk with a Sharp Edge (74%)
From roadside squabbles to political speeches, strong language is deeply embedded in UP’s conversational style. It's often less about insult and more about assertion or dramatic flair in arguments.
4. Bihar: Straight Talk, Strong Words (74%)
In Bihar, the use of blunt and emotionally charged language is common, especially during disagreements. In rural setups, it can be used to express dominance or disapproval, sometimes with little sensitivity to its impact.
5. Rajasthan: Heated Words Under the Desert Sun (68%)
Despite its royal heritage, parts of Rajasthan display a rougher verbal tone in daily life. Whether in family disputes or casual gossip, mild abusive terms often surface without much offence being taken.
6. Haryana: Rough Words, Rural Roots (62%)
Famous for its rustic and fearless attitude, Haryana embraces direct speech—even when it turns abusive. Among men, especially in rural areas, such language is seen as a mark of masculinity or assertiveness.
7. Maharashtra: Stress, Slang and Street Talk (58%)
Big-city stress in Mumbai and Pune often finds release through verbal outbursts. Crowded trains, traffic snarls, and market chaos make slang and swear words a common feature of the urban vocabulary.
8. Gujarat: The Surprising Entry (55%)
Usually known for courteous conduct, Gujarat still sees occasional abusive language, particularly among the youth. Pop culture, social media, and regional influences may be changing how younger generations express themselves.
9. Madhya Pradesh: Local Lingo with a Rough Edge (48%)
In MP’s towns and villages, the native dialects sometimes feature words that border on abusive. These are used casually in everyday life, especially during heated exchanges or storytelling.
10. Uttarakhand: Peaceful People, Rising Stress (45%)
Traditionally known for calm and courteous speech, some parts of Uttarakhand are seeing a shift. Increasing urbanisation and the influence of neighbouring states with harsher slang have led to a modest rise in abusive language.
Kashmir: The Kindest Talkers (15%)
Standing apart from the rest, Kashmir reports the lowest rate of abusive language usage. Strong cultural values, family bonds, and a deep-rooted sense of respect keep conversations largely civil and soft-spoken.
This unique survey reveals a deeper cultural concern—how verbal abuse has crept into casual conversation across the country. By highlighting these patterns, campaigns like Gaali Band Ghar Abhiyan aim to promote kinder communication and more respectful homes.
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