1st Holi After Marriage Traditions: Why should the first Holi after marriage not be celebrated in the in-laws' house?
First Holi After Marriage Traditions: Indian festivals aren't just celebrations; they're also a confluence of traditions. Holi isn't just about sweets and colors, but also about a multitude of traditions. You may have often heard your elders say, or if someone in your family has just gotten married, you may have noticed that the first Holi isn't celebrated at the in-laws' house. Yes, a special ritual is quite popular regarding the first Holi after marriage. The newlywed bride celebrates her first Holi not at her in-laws' house, but at her parents' house. Why is this? Is it just a custom, or is there a reason behind it? If you're also curious to know the answer, read this article.
Why is the first Holi not celebrated at the in-laws' house?
According to family elders and beliefs, it's considered inauspicious for a daughter-in-law and mother-in-law to watch the burning Holika fire together on the first Holi after marriage. Watching the Holika Dahan is considered inauspicious for newlyweds. There's a reason Holika Dahan is called Holika's pyre. Therefore, staying at the in-laws' house after a wedding and watching Holika's pyre burn is considered inauspicious.
1. Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship -
It is believed that the Holi fire is very intense. According to tradition, watching the fire together between a new daughter-in-law and mother-in-law can bring bitterness to the relationship.
2. Health of the unborn child -
It is believed that if a new bride is pregnant, the heat and smoke of Holika Dahan are not good for her and her unborn child. Staying at her parents' home provides her with more comfort and care.
3. Harmony in relationships -
It is also believed that going to her parents' home on the first Holi gives her a chance to spend some time in her old environment, which keeps her mentally happy. Furthermore, when a son-in-law goes to his in-laws' home, his relationships with the people there also become stronger.
What to pack when going to your parents' house
If you're going to your parents' house for the first time after your wedding, be sure to pack essential items.
1. Comfortable kurtis, palazzos, t-shirts, leggings, or cotton saris for home.
2. If you're meeting friends or relatives, pack a nice suit or sari.
3. Be sure to bring face wash, moisturizer, sunscreen, and cold cream, along with skincare items.
4. If you'll be staying at your parents' house for a few days, bring money with you so you don't have to ask your parents for money after the wedding.
5. Always bring your medications with you. If you have a history of overeating, take them with you.
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