Going on a date? 6 Vastu and astrology tips to attract the right relationship energy
A date does not begin when you reach the café or restaurant.
It begins while you are getting ready. Here are six practices I would suggest.
1. Take an essential oil bath before getting readyBefore a special date, make your bath part of the preparation rather than rushing through it. After your regular bath, you can use a properly diluted Rose, Jasmine or Ylang-Ylang aroma preparation suitable for bathing. Choose only one fragrance rather than mixing everything together.
Think of this as your transition ritual. Work is over. The day's stress is over. You are now getting ready to meet someone without carrying the entire day into that meeting.
If you have sensitive skin, allergies or haven't used an oil before, don't experiment immediately before a date.
2. Wear a soft, memorable perfumeFragrance can become one of the strongest memories we associate with another person.
For a date, I generally prefer Rose, Jasmine, Vanilla, Ylang-Ylang or a soft floral-woody fragrance, depending on the person's Date of Birth and overall personality.
But there is one rule I would never compromise on:
Don't overdo it.
Your perfume should ideally be noticed when someone comes closer, not when you enter the building.
3. Wear a relationship crystal on your left handIf crystals are part of your personal practice, the left hand can be used symbolically as the receiving side.
For a romantic meeting, Rose Quartz would be my simplest choice. Depending on the individual, Moonstone or another personalised crystal can also be considered.
Wear one crystal bracelet rather than turning your wrist into a complete crystal collection.
The intention should be simple: remain open to affection without becoming desperate for approval.
4. Wear a minimalist round or oval watch on your left handFor a date, I prefer a round or oval-shaped watch with a clean, minimalistic dial, preferably with Roman numerals if that style suits you.
Wear it on the left hand.
Avoid an excessively busy or aggressive-looking dial for a romantic setting. The watch should complement the overall personality rather than dominate it.
And there is a practical relationship rule attached to the watch too:
Reach on time.
No astrological remedy for attraction begins with making the other person wait forty minutes.
5. Wear your lucky relationship colourDon't automatically wear red because you're going on a date.
Your favourable colour can be personalised using your Date of Birth, Name Number and current planetary requirements. For one person, softer pink may work beautifully. Another may be better suited to white, blue, green, beige or even black.
You don't need to dress entirely in the colour either.
It can appear through your shirt, dress, scarf, jewellery, watch strap, handbag or another small accessory.
The objective is alignment, not fancy dress.
6. Do a small release ritual for past relationship memoriesThis is particularly useful if you notice yourself entering every new relationship while mentally comparing it with an old one.
Before getting ready, take a piece of paper and a red pen.
Write down what you consciously want to release from previous relationship experiences. It could be hurt, rejection, anger, guilt, betrayal, expectations or simply the habit of comparing every new person with someone from your past.
End with:
“I acknowledge what this experience taught me. I now release what I no longer need to carry into my next chapter.”
Then, only if it is safe and permitted where you are, burn the paper in a fire-safe container, away from fabrics and other flammable materials. Otherwise, tear it into small pieces and discard it.
The ritual is symbolic. The important part is the decision behind it.
It begins while you are getting ready. Here are six practices I would suggest.
1. Take an essential oil bath before getting readyBefore a special date, make your bath part of the preparation rather than rushing through it. After your regular bath, you can use a properly diluted Rose, Jasmine or Ylang-Ylang aroma preparation suitable for bathing. Choose only one fragrance rather than mixing everything together.
Think of this as your transition ritual. Work is over. The day's stress is over. You are now getting ready to meet someone without carrying the entire day into that meeting.
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If you have sensitive skin, allergies or haven't used an oil before, don't experiment immediately before a date.
2. Wear a soft, memorable perfumeFragrance can become one of the strongest memories we associate with another person.
For a date, I generally prefer Rose, Jasmine, Vanilla, Ylang-Ylang or a soft floral-woody fragrance, depending on the person's Date of Birth and overall personality.
But there is one rule I would never compromise on:
Don't overdo it.
Your perfume should ideally be noticed when someone comes closer, not when you enter the building.
3. Wear a relationship crystal on your left handIf crystals are part of your personal practice, the left hand can be used symbolically as the receiving side.
For a romantic meeting, Rose Quartz would be my simplest choice. Depending on the individual, Moonstone or another personalised crystal can also be considered.
Wear one crystal bracelet rather than turning your wrist into a complete crystal collection.
The intention should be simple: remain open to affection without becoming desperate for approval.
4. Wear a minimalist round or oval watch on your left handFor a date, I prefer a round or oval-shaped watch with a clean, minimalistic dial, preferably with Roman numerals if that style suits you.
Wear it on the left hand.
Avoid an excessively busy or aggressive-looking dial for a romantic setting. The watch should complement the overall personality rather than dominate it.
And there is a practical relationship rule attached to the watch too:
Reach on time.
No astrological remedy for attraction begins with making the other person wait forty minutes.
5. Wear your lucky relationship colourDon't automatically wear red because you're going on a date.
Your favourable colour can be personalised using your Date of Birth, Name Number and current planetary requirements. For one person, softer pink may work beautifully. Another may be better suited to white, blue, green, beige or even black.
You don't need to dress entirely in the colour either.
It can appear through your shirt, dress, scarf, jewellery, watch strap, handbag or another small accessory.
The objective is alignment, not fancy dress.
6. Do a small release ritual for past relationship memoriesThis is particularly useful if you notice yourself entering every new relationship while mentally comparing it with an old one.
Before getting ready, take a piece of paper and a red pen.
Write down what you consciously want to release from previous relationship experiences. It could be hurt, rejection, anger, guilt, betrayal, expectations or simply the habit of comparing every new person with someone from your past.
End with:
“I acknowledge what this experience taught me. I now release what I no longer need to carry into my next chapter.”
Then, only if it is safe and permitted where you are, burn the paper in a fire-safe container, away from fabrics and other flammable materials. Otherwise, tear it into small pieces and discard it.
The ritual is symbolic. The important part is the decision behind it.
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